Archive for February, 2009
Saturday, February 28th, 2009
I have been married to my husband that has worked as a male gigolo since I have known him. It is actually how we met and eventually came to marry one another. I was at the time I met my husband a very successful executive working for a highly recognized and respected company making a very comfortable income. I had never been married and really never looked t attach myself to some one. I occasionally would meet up with friends I had kind of dated back in college for the old one night stand so to speak, but never really held a relationship as my career was so important to me and I did not have time for a relationship.
I was out of town on business and had talked about male escorting services with my girlfriends a lot of times and some of them had even said they had tried male escort before in the past and the were mind blowing experiences so I got my courage up and called for an escort. I was met by this incredibly handsome man an hour later in my hotel room and needless to say it was the best time of my life. I ended up giving him my personal number and we ended up seeing each other casually after that first time and before you know it we were walking down the isle. My husband is still a male gigolo and I am ok with it because I know that what he does is business and not some thing he does out of pleasure.
Friday, February 27th, 2009
If you can believe it or not 4 years ago I was an individual that would not leave his home unless it was for something like food or to pay my bills. I am 28 years old and have been a male escort for 4 years. I have always had a problem with socializing and being around people in general. I finished the university and began a job working from home through the internet. I never went out with my friends and just became a home body. Till one night my friends were over and we decided to call for an escort. Not more than an hour after we called, this beautiful woman walked into my apartment and for lack of a better expression lets just say we were ridden hard and put away wet.
It was after that encounter that I began to look into male escorting as a mean to get out more and meet people. I had always heard stories that there in most cases is very little sex involved and well with as little as I would get out I actually invited the idea of more sex in my life. I began taking calls from an escorting agency and made a name not wanting to really quick for myself and before I knew it I was the most desired male escort the agency had. Well since I started I have began working as an independent male escort and have made tons of new friends and money on top of it. Turns out that male escorting was exactly what I needed to become a more sociable person and get out more.
Thursday, February 26th, 2009
I am a 52 year old man and before I retired from male escorting I had been in the business for close to 14 years. I do not really think some one who has worked in male escorting ever really leaves the life. My sex life is as active as it was when I was a gigolo only now I am not being paid for my pleasure. I had decided to retire because I was not up for the adventures that came along with the escorting life anymore and I had amassed and sizable amount of money where I did not need to depend on my escorting services to provide me a comfortable life. But does some one really ever give up the life. I do not think so. I have stopped taking calls and setting up encounters but I still mingle in the circles. I have on occasion gone out with a woman and had a terrific evening with her at which she tried to finish the evening by giving me money of which I did not accept and explained to her I was not a gigolo.
I can recall one evening when I was mingling amongst some of my former co-workers at a social event I did not imagine would have women roaming around freely getting hooked up for the night with the male escorts that were there when I was approached by an incredibly beautiful woman that asked if she could take me home. Well take me home she did and after all was said and done I got her number and we occasionally see each other. I guess there comes a point in a male escorts life where he stops being paid for his services but will never give up the sexual aspect of the escorting life style.
Wednesday, February 25th, 2009
I tell you what! Becoming a male escort was a lot easier than retiring as one. I say this because I was making lots and lots of money and I really didnt want to give it up, but I know it is the correct thing to do. Plus, I have just graduated from college and I know there are better things for me out there.
I had started male escorting when I was a freshman in college. I needed the money for tuition, books and all of the things that come with going to a good school. I published an ad in an escort agency but also offered my services to the women on campus. I really didnt see too much business from their end but they did help me with referrals and recommendations. I took my escort jobs very seriously and I considered myself a very good male gigolo. I went on to make lots of cash during the four plus years I was enrolled at the university. I became known as the youngest, mature male escort in the area. I had all of these wealthy but lonely housewives support me all the way through graduate school. I felt like escorting was becoming an addiction, not only a job so I knew I had to give it up. Why the heck was I studying if I wanted to be a Male Escort forever? So I did the correct thing and hung up my Gigolo shoes. I also wanted to settle down with a nice woman and I really do not think that she would have liked the idea of marrying an escort. But I had fun though!
Tuesday, February 24th, 2009
I can remember back to a couple of dates I had in the begging of my career as a male escort and laugh at how innocent I was. I remember my first date that may very well have been the best date of my life. I went out with an older woman but you would not have said she was 50 and had a great meal. Later we had some drinks and I ended up taking her home and ending the night with a kiss and $400. My second date was with a couple I had hooked up with that were interested in experimenting with a threesome of which I had never tried, but I though what the hell. It turned out to be a great evening in which my escorting services brought me in $500 dollars. Not bad for 2 dates in a 4 day time period having just started out.
There werent always dates that turned out the way you would have expected them to. There was one particular date that I had set up with a woman that was looking for a male escort through one of my co-workers from an escorting agency I worked for in the UK. We hooked up at a restaurant and everything was going fine until the waiter came over to take our order. She had asked that the waiter return in a few moments and when the waiter left I had asked her if she had not been able to decide on what to eat. She replied that she was not really thinking that we were going to eat but rather wanted to just have sex. It took me a few moments to explain to her that she may have misunderstood that I was a male escort and not a male prostitute. Well the night ended with some mild petting and kissing and I made $400 from that particular date.
Monday, February 23rd, 2009
A Common misconception is that the only way to get by as a male escort is to shut off all emotion. An emotionally-dead escort will not be popular and will cause emotional problems in himself. It is human after all to feel a connection and emotions for a client. I have found myself falling in love with various clients of mine, throughout the time we spend together. The moment my encounter is over I go about my life and they go about theirs, but it is fun to allow myself to get swept away in the moment. I never really considered a serious relationship with my clients. I always regained my perspective. I have come to realize since having become a male escort how much I love the social attention and being adored.
Male escorting work has had a very positive affect on me as a person, even my friends and relatives have said I am a much happier person sine I began male escorting work. I am a much less stressed person and I have a much better income. I do not know why a person would want to be cooped up in an office when they could visit extravagant places and spend time with some incredible people. Lets not forget the sex. I think a lot of escorts love the same thing. Some love the ego boost they get from being adored, others openly enjoy the opportunity to travel and live an adventurous life. Some look forward to favorite clients with whom theyve built a small relationship. Some escorts have had clients for years (long before the Internet boom). It is difficult to be intimate with another person for a long time without developing genuine feelings and a real relationship, but most enjoy the sexual variety.
Sunday, February 22nd, 2009
Ive been a male escort for about 10 years and I have to say it has been a good run so far. Theres always certain aspects of a profession that arent all great, but for the most part it has more pros than cons. The money of course wasnt always they key factor in being a male gigolo, I mean think about it who wouldnt want to have sex with women for money. It wasnt always the high paying lonely wife of a business executive or the out of town mom away with her girlfriends that call for what they think is a stripper but end up getting a whole lot more than just a show. I remember starting out at the bottom of the biz at a Male escort Agency and taking what ever rolled in over the phone line.
Now the concerns and bothers of escorting work are different. There are times where you get a steady client that eventually tells you she is in love with you and wants to leave her husband and life for you or the once in a while out of towner that tells you to leave your escorting job and come live with her. That is not to mention the one night stands that turn into stalkers. Then again the money and the life style have been things that always made me tell myself there is not any other life for me. So I guess a few dramas from time to time are worth the money, beautiful women, and the exotic places I get to go living the life of an independent male escort.
Saturday, February 21st, 2009
A 57 year old Head Teacher is taking an early retirement to pursue a career in Male Escorting. The individual when asked what was his reason for taking the decision to give up his current career to pursue a career in Male Escorting replied One of my friends put me on to the idea of applying to cruise ships and well it sounds like a great idea. Though the individual feels as though his career move will be one that brings him a new found joy as far as male escorting work is concerned his wife unfortunately does not share the same enthusiasm as he does.
This is not to mention that his 23 and 21 year old daughters arent as well hitched on the idea of their 57 year old father being a gigolo floating away to exotic locations being the escort of some other woman. The individual has stated that his reason more than any other for making such a drastic career change into escorting work and so late in his life is to be able to visit different locations he otherwise as a teacher would have never been able to. Although the individual will not receive a salary he will have passage and rooming for free, he has said that one of the perks to the job other than the fact that he will be a male escort will be to do such things as visit The Great Wall of China or climb Machu Pichu in Peru. He will have left the school by the 31st of December and has said that there is some do it yourself work he needs to get done around his daughters homes before he sets sail.
Friday, February 20th, 2009
I remember back to when I first began thinking of the idea of becoming a male escort. It was about 5 years ago while I was still in college when some of my friends and I decided that we would call an escort agency and have some girls come and entertain us. Well with out going into too much detail we had some very beautiful women come over and entertain us in ways that we will carry with us for the rest of or lives. I began looking into how a man could become a gigolo and soon found myself smack dab in the middle of the male escorting scene. I began at a Male Escorting Agency here in the U.S., but not long after took up a proposal to work for another Male Escorting Agency in the UK.
I was not really in a position to pick and choose between my clients when I first began Escorting work, but it did not take long for me to make a name for myself and have high dollar honeys requesting me exclusively at the escorting agency I was working for. It turned out that a lot of the other male escorts were into more traditional means of satisfying their clients where as I was different. I never had a problem being a bit naughty and playing with toys with my clients or going out of my way to research different places we could meet up that provided such encounters with an appropriate ambience and hardware. I guess it is safe to say that when my male escorting services are called upon I make it my top priority to want that my clients return for more of my entertainment!
Thursday, February 19th, 2009
I cant remember a time when I did not want to be a male escort. Male Escort jobs would always be in the paper when I read it and always wondered how much a male escort could possibly make and what kind of a life would a person have with that type of profession. Having the advantage growing up of the internet I would always search and interest myself with any thing and every thing related to male escorting work. I was as well fortunate by the time I was graduating high school to have begun to circulate among the male escort world and soon found myself working for an escorting industry. I had imagined it would have been harder to become a male escort but surprised at how easy it really was.
Well needless to say it wasnt always glimmer and shine doing escort work for an agency because you didnt have a pick at what you were interested as well as what paid nicely regarding the clientele. But not long after having joined the male escort world I began to pick up a few private clients and soon found myself as an independent male escort. So I guess it is safe to say that dreams come true. I am living proof of the dream in action! If I could change anything I would have only side stepped the escort agency and been one of those ads I used to read in the paper dreaming about the life I a living now.
Wednesday, February 18th, 2009
I am a male escort that has been doing escorting work for about 6 years. Not too long ago I got a call from a client that was interested in meeting for a casual encounter. I did not think much of it and set up a date with the client so we could meet. Well we ended up meeting and having a great time at dinner and on this particular event did not have any type of sexual encounter. I continued on with my male escorting work not having given the encounter much thought. It was about 2 months after the initial encounter that I received a call from this client again wanting to meet and go out. Being a male escort and a man of business I set up the encounter and needless to say it was fantastic. On this particular encounter we spoke a lot more about our lives and after some mind blowing sex. It dawned on me that I knew this woman.
After the encounter I was able to make the connection between the women and how I had known her. It turned out that the women was my aunt. I was shocked when I put the things she had told me about her life together. Never in a million years did I imagine being a male gigolo would lead me to providing my male escorting services to my aunt. Since then I have changed my telephone numbers and re distributed my new numbers to my clients and have not yet been contacted by her again. I as well have begun screening my clients better to avoid that I would one day again be providing my male escorting services to some one related to me!
Tuesday, February 17th, 2009
I am a 33 year old Male Escort that has been part of the Escorting scene for about 10 years. I initially was turned on to the whole idea of male escorting through a female friend of mine that I guess it is safe to say was for some time my girlfriend. I was dating this female friend for about 2 years when my friends and I decided to get an escort. Well when the escort arrived I was crushed to find out it was the female friend I was dating. We did not speak for some time after that. When we did finally speak again and clear the air of a lot of questions I had she explained to me how the entire escorting job worked and I was fascinated by it.
I began working out and tanning and when I thought I was ready applied to an escorting agency and was immediately accepted. It did not take long for me to make a name for myself and soon found myself being asked if I did independent calls in my free time. I began independent escorting and have been doing so now for about 6 years. I don not think I would have my life any other way. I am paid simply for my company, in most cases the wealthy widow that wants to be seen at a social event with a boy toy or a lonely wife that just can not seem to get the kind of satisfaction from her corporate husband that is never home. Dont get me wrong there is plenty of sex involved in the male escorting line of work, but it would surprise you how many people just want some one to talk to.
Monday, February 16th, 2009
Some people would say that the life of an Escort is all glamour and fun, but what they really dont take into appreciation is the time, effort, and work that goes into being a good male Escort. There is all the grooming that needs to be done on a daily basis which consists of working out, tanning, and hair removal that thank god does not need to happen everyday. Lets not forget the money that goes into the job. You cant be a high dollar Escort wearing no name brands of fashion. Remember that these ladies know why theyre calling an escort and expect that every last one of their expectations of what theyre paying for to be satisfied. They dont want a guy to show up looking like in most cases theyre husbands before they rush off to work in the morning in their nice suits. They want that we show up dressed sharp and looking every bit the fun that theyre paying for and trust me one encounter with me can get costly. Take this one Italian client of mine, every time she is up for a little free for all under the sheets she has me flown out to her and we spend a day or two in a fancy hotel and she spares no expense to assure that we have a good time and none of what I just mentioned is deducted from my 7500 dollar fee. So while most just see the outside splendor of the life of a Male Escort most will never know the type of dedication and hard work that goes into pleasing women at the level at which I do it.
Sunday, February 15th, 2009
I am a male escort thats fairly new to the business and not to long ago made the decision to leave the biz and settle down with a women I met outside of work. I initially said to myself that she is the one and thought I could simply leave the game as fast as I had become a part of it, but little to my surprise it hasnt been. I have maintained a handful of my profitable clients that really enjoy the services I provide them and the temporary companionship, but I feel terrible about cheating on my loved one.
I guess there comes a time where you have to really decide if in fact the life style and the money are worth more than a shot at happiness and love. My friends that know I am a Male Escort have all told me that I should have never got myself into a relationship and that I am a fool, but I guess I was really under the impression that I could have my cake and eat it too. It wasnt too long ago that one of my ladies had asked me if it I could fly out to an island in the Mediterranean she would be staying at and conducting some business and it got hectic finding a way to get away from my girl for a weekend. I guess all in all I ma not ready to leave the life and should probably tell the poor girl that it isnt going to work out. Not always is it easy in the life of a Male Escort
Saturday, February 14th, 2009
I really did not want it to come down to what it came down to. My escorting business was gong well at first. I had become a male escort in 2004 and I loved every minute of it. I was providing escort services for the wealthiest women in the UK. If you are a mature male escort in the UK, you will not run out of escorting jobs. There is plenty of escort work out there for all of us, if we do things correctly. And I was doing things correctly until the summer of 2007.
That summer, since I was making tons of cash with my escort jobs, I decided to begin gambling. I would meet up with my women clients whenever they wanted and then I would go to the track or place bets with bookies (mostly futbol and horses). At first it was going fairly well, I would win sometimes and when I lost, I never really got out of hand. But then I noticed that my male escort work began to suffer a bit because I was now paying more attention to my gambling. And since gambling is an addiction, it got worse and worse instead of better. It got so bad that I lost all of my wealthy clients. The women who really supported me left me faster than I could place a bet and I was losing tons of money. I became so desperate that I began prostituting myself. I started to do horrible escorting work and became an embarrassing gigolo. I am now in rehab trying to get my life back. At least im headed the right way.
Friday, February 13th, 2009
I used to be a simple man. I had a 9-5 job working as an insurance advisor, and I had a girlfriend who loved me and took care of me. But one day, I got this flash of complete and utter boredom because I realized that I did not love my woman, I was just very comfortable with her and it was the same feeling towards my job. So I decided to give it all up and become a male escort.
Becoming a male escort was really not something I pictured myself doing. Escort work seemed out of my league because I am just your average Joe. But I needed a spark in my life and I know that we only live once so I gave it a go.
I decided to begin as an independent escort to try to get my feet wet. I wanted to see if I would fit into the atmosphere of charming and dating women for money (no sex
.just yet). Once I realized that I had the tools to compete in this field, I posted a website with my complete profile with an escort agency. Escort agencies are really the way to go in this market. Time was passing by so fast because I loved what I was doing (sex now involved) and escorting jobs were popping up by the herds. But then the boredom bug bit me again and I decided to get crazier by going to South America and escorting there. I have family there and I knew I would land on my feet. I did land on my feet and life has not been any better.
Thursday, February 12th, 2009
I would have never thought that a Male Escort could be so popular and so loved. But I guess that in the great state of California, anything can happen. I say this because Steve had been a professional gigolo for about 35 years so you can imagine how many women he had met and dated throughout those 35 years. His memoir said it all. It is actually on the best sellers list in California. He spoke about how escorting saved his life because he was really close to throwing in the towel. He also said that he handled each and every escort job with the utmost professionalism. He went on to discuss how becoming a male escort was the most thrilling moment of his life and that every young man out there should try male escort work at least once. He also mentioned how he would travel the globe once in a while to meet other mature escorts and give and get advice from each and every one of them if he could. I guess all of these experiences are the reasons in which Steves funeral was jam packed with hundreds of people from all over the place.
When I arrived I could not believe my eyes. I thought that it was going to be something simple since the male escorting industry does not like to be in the spotlight for obvious reasons. But I was way wrong! It was full of his best clients. These women were filthy rich and they went out of their way for a Gigolo that obviously made them very happy throughout the years. It was also full of male escort agency owners and their employees. There were independent escorts from all over the place as well. This man really made an impact.
Wednesday, February 11th, 2009
Male Escorting work can be very exciting. I remember when I first started; I felt those famous butterflies start to form in my stomach because of the anxiety and good nerves that I had waiting for my first date. My first male escort job came via an ad that I personally placed in the newspaper. I really didnt know what I was doing, all I knew was that I wanted to meet women and get paid for it. But I later realized that becoming a male escort was not as simple as that.
I had a tough time as an independent escort so I decided to try to go through an escort agency. This move would change my life forever. Not only was I publishing with a well known agency, I was doing no work to meet the women that were paying me. They would find me on my website, call me to arrange the details and then we would meet, simple as 1, 2, 3. Once this initiative took off, I really started to enjoy escorting work. My escort jobs were growing as well as my bank account. I went from amateur gigolo to mature escort faster than you can say How much do I owe you? The women I dated became so high class that I was able to narrow down my dates to only 3 per week with these 3 ladies that were supporting all of my hobbies and habits. Male gigolos are different than women escorts. We need to work more for the buck. But I can definitely say that I have reached the pinnacle of the escorting industry.
Tuesday, February 10th, 2009
Male escorting has been on my mind for quite some time now. It is a job I have been researching for a while, and I have decided that I would like to be a male escort. But becoming a male escort is not as easy as it may sound. You do not just hang on to the womans arm and smile; you need to have personality for escort work. Having looks doesnt hurt either. Charm, confidence, integrity, posture and your overall appearance are things that you need to have very polished to be a successful Male Gigolo. These are some the areas in which I believe I need some help.
So I looked around the city to see if there were such classes to help me sand down these rough edges of mine. I think I can dive in and get some pretty good escort work now but I feel like I can be better rounded. There is an abundance of male escorting jobs in the city and I can be patient. I finally ran across a retired Male Escort who was privately tutoring young men that were interested in male escorting work. I gave him a call and we arranged a schedule. He would meet me 3 times per week at his place for about 2 hours everyday. The class was basically the basics on how to talk to a high class female and what types of things to expect and not to expect. He also would go through proper escorting etiquette. We did this for about a month and I have been raking in the money ever since.
Monday, February 9th, 2009
Male escort work can be very deceptive. You can start out by having the time of your life with the best of clients and then end up having nothing because of one bad move. You can be throwing wads of hundred dollar bills on anything you please and then all of a sudden, you might find yourself scraping pennies to make ends meet.
There are male gigolos all over the US and each of them has his own escorting style. There are mature escorts who deal only with fancy, wealthy, older women that just want a trophy to hang form their arms while they attend one of their ritzy functions. Then there are Male Escorts who usually do independent escort work and cater more to that lonely housewife that needs more bedroom attention than anything else. There are differences in these two types of Gigolo but they also have one common principle which is money. Money is the root of all evil and I found out the hard way. I have been participating in male escorting jobs for about 5 years now and I was doing extremely well. I was a combination between the mature escort I mentioned above and your standard gigolo. But I crossed the wrong person and my escorting ways were never the same. I became part of a very famous escort agency in which the owner had lots of power in the industry (if you know what I mean). We had a heated argument, it turned violent and I was on the losing end of a lawsuit that ended my Male escorting career in one day. Now it is back to the drawing board.